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Lech Lecha – Choose the Big Picture
Parshas Lech Lecha begins with Hashem telling Avraham to leave Charan and travel to the Land of Canaan. Upon his arrival he is faced with a famine and heads down to Egypt. When the famine ends Avraham, his wife Sarai and nephew Lot return to Canaan. Following their return to Canaan from Mitzrayim in the wake of the famine, the Torah recounts that Avraham and his nephew Lot had become very wealthy, yet there was not enough pasture available for both of their flocks. Lot permit
Binyomin Stolov
5 days ago4 min read
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Noach – Don’t Just Look Inward
Parshas Noach opens with the introduction of Noach, a remarkably righteous figure who is 500 years old. Hashem instructs him to construct a Taiva, or ark, due to the rampant corruption in the world, prompting Hashem to bring forth a flood that will obliterate all its inhabitants. This ark was intended to house all species of animals, along with Noach, his family, and provisions sufficient for an entire year, as they endured the flood. Noach, in compliance with Hashem's orders
Binyomin Stolov
Oct 233 min read
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Bereishis – Man: The Apex of Creation
Parshas Bereishis outlines the creation of the world by Hashem. In the first five days, Hashem lays the groundwork for His most remarkable creation. On the sixth day, once all else has been created, Hashem creates man. Chazal likens this process to a banquet being arranged for a distinguished guest. The hall is elegantly decorated, the food is prepared, and the tables are set. The other attendees arrive, and ultimately, when everything is ready, the esteemed guest makes his e
Binyomin Stolov
Oct 173 min read
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Vayeilech – Walking
This week's Parsha, Parshas Vayeilech, recounts the final words of Moshe Rabbeinu on the last day of his life. It opens with the phrase,...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 253 min read
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Nitzavim – Standing Tall
Rashi quotes the Midrash Tanchuma on the first verse of Parshas Nitzavim: Why is the section beginning with the words, "You are standing...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 183 min read
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Ki Savo – Service With a Smile
Parshas Ki Savo details the blessings and curses articulated on Mount Gerizim and Mount Eval during the Jewish nation's entry into the...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 113 min read
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Ki Seitzei – The Debt of Gratitude
In Parshas Ki Seitzei, the Torah cautions the Jewish people that individuals from the nations of Ammon and Moav are forever barred from...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 43 min read
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Shoftim – Don’t Be Bribed, Be Incentivized
In Parshas Shoftim, the Torah cautions us about the dangers associated with accepting bribes. The Passuk states, "and you shall not take...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 283 min read
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Re’eh – Living Up to Your Role
In Parshas Re’eh, the Torah instructs the Jewish People about the consequences for an individual who attempts to lead others to idol...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 214 min read
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Eikev – Use a Map
In Parshas Eikev, the passuk states, ‘You shall remember all the way which Hashem your God has led you…’ The Torah calls upon the Jewish...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 144 min read
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Devarim – Accepting and Growing from Consequences
Parshas Devarim opens with Moshe's reprimand and censure of the Jewish People for their sins in the Desert. He recounts their actions...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 313 min read
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Get Your Priorities Straight
In Parshas Matos (32,16), the tribes of Reuven and Gad come to Moshe with a request to settle in Trans-Jordan. They explain to Moshe...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 243 min read
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Pinchas – The Absence of Pieces
Parshas Pinchas begins with Hashem revealing to Moshe that He is granting Pinchas the eternal reward of peace for his zealous act of...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 173 min read
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Balak – Willful Blindness
Pashas Balak recounts the tale of Bilaam, a non-Jewish prophet who is commissioned by Balak, the King of Moav, to curse the Jewish...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 94 min read
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Chukas – Just Because It Is Right
Parshas Chukas opens with the laws about the Parah Aduma, the Red Heifer. This commandment serves as a quintessential illustration of a...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 44 min read
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Korach – Who Wants a Happy Life?
Korach challenges Moshe's leadership and Divine appointment. Korach felt aggrieved by Moshe, reasoning that their grandfather, Kehas, had...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 34 min read
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Shelach – Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
How you are seen When the spies return from scouting out the land of Canaan, they report to Moshe and the nation all that they saw. They...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 204 min read
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Behaalosecha - There are No Limits
In Parshas Behaalosecha, the Torah articulates the laws of Pesach Sheini. In the year following the exodus from Egypt, Hashem commands...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 124 min read
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The Impressionable Mind
In Parshas Nasso, the Torah outlines the laws governing a Sotah. This refers to a woman whose husband has cautioned her against secluding...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 54 min read
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Count them, Because They Count
The Sefer of Bamidbar is known by Chazal as Sefer Hapikudim. In English, it is referred to as the Book of Numbers, rather than the Book...
Binyomin Stolov
May 304 min read
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