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Vayeilech – Walking
This week's Parsha, Parshas Vayeilech, recounts the final words of Moshe Rabbeinu on the last day of his life. It opens with the phrase,...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 25, 20253 min read


Nitzavim – Standing Tall
Rashi quotes the Midrash Tanchuma on the first verse of Parshas Nitzavim: Why is the section beginning with the words, "You are standing...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 18, 20253 min read


Ki Savo – Service With a Smile
Parshas Ki Savo details the blessings and curses articulated on Mount Gerizim and Mount Eval during the Jewish nation's entry into the...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 11, 20253 min read


Ki Seitzei – The Debt of Gratitude
In Parshas Ki Seitzei, the Torah cautions the Jewish people that individuals from the nations of Ammon and Moav are forever barred from...
Binyomin Stolov
Sep 4, 20253 min read


Shoftim – Don’t Be Bribed, Be Incentivized
In Parshas Shoftim, the Torah cautions us about the dangers associated with accepting bribes. The Passuk states, "and you shall not take...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 28, 20253 min read


Re’eh – Living Up to Your Role
In Parshas Re’eh, the Torah instructs the Jewish People about the consequences for an individual who attempts to lead others to idol...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 21, 20254 min read


Eikev – Use a Map
In Parshas Eikev, the passuk states, ‘You shall remember all the way which Hashem your God has led you…’ The Torah calls upon the Jewish...
Binyomin Stolov
Aug 14, 20254 min read
Devarim – Accepting and Growing from Consequences
Parshas Devarim opens with Moshe's reprimand and censure of the Jewish People for their sins in the Desert. He recounts their actions...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 31, 20253 min read


Get Your Priorities Straight
In Parshas Matos (32,16), the tribes of Reuven and Gad come to Moshe with a request to settle in Trans-Jordan. They explain to Moshe...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 24, 20253 min read


Pinchas – The Absence of Pieces
Parshas Pinchas begins with Hashem revealing to Moshe that He is granting Pinchas the eternal reward of peace for his zealous act of...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 17, 20253 min read


Balak – Willful Blindness
Pashas Balak recounts the tale of Bilaam, a non-Jewish prophet who is commissioned by Balak, the King of Moav, to curse the Jewish...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 9, 20254 min read


Chukas – Just Because It Is Right
Parshas Chukas opens with the laws about the Parah Aduma, the Red Heifer. This commandment serves as a quintessential illustration of a...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 4, 20254 min read


Korach – Who Wants a Happy Life?
Korach challenges Moshe's leadership and Divine appointment. Korach felt aggrieved by Moshe, reasoning that their grandfather, Kehas, had...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 3, 20254 min read


Shelach – Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
How you are seen When the spies return from scouting out the land of Canaan, they report to Moshe and the nation all that they saw. They...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 20, 20254 min read


Behaalosecha - There are No Limits
In Parshas Behaalosecha, the Torah articulates the laws of Pesach Sheini. In the year following the exodus from Egypt, Hashem commands...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 12, 20254 min read


The Impressionable Mind
In Parshas Nasso, the Torah outlines the laws governing a Sotah. This refers to a woman whose husband has cautioned her against secluding...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Count them, Because They Count
The Sefer of Bamidbar is known by Chazal as Sefer Hapikudim. In English, it is referred to as the Book of Numbers, rather than the Book...
Binyomin Stolov
May 30, 20254 min read


Word Power and An Honest Look
Behar – Word Power The Torah contains numerous laws concerning appropriate speech. Many verses and texts discuss the laws of Lashon Hara...
Binyomin Stolov
May 22, 20254 min read


The Challenge of Unfairness
Overcoming challenges In the latter part of Parshas Emor, a sorrowful narrative unfolds regarding a man who blasphemes God and faces...
Binyomin Stolov
May 15, 20254 min read


Love of Self, Love of Others
Love of Self leads to Love of others One of the most frequently cited verses in the Torah appears in Parshas Kedoshim, which states,...
Binyomin Stolov
May 7, 20254 min read
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