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Get Your Priorities Straight
In Parshas Matos (32,16), the tribes of Reuven and Gad come to Moshe with a request to settle in Trans-Jordan. They explain to Moshe...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 24, 20253 min read


Pinchas – The Absence of Pieces
Parshas Pinchas begins with Hashem revealing to Moshe that He is granting Pinchas the eternal reward of peace for his zealous act of...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 17, 20253 min read


Balak – Willful Blindness
Pashas Balak recounts the tale of Bilaam, a non-Jewish prophet who is commissioned by Balak, the King of Moav, to curse the Jewish...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 9, 20254 min read


Chukas – Just Because It Is Right
Parshas Chukas opens with the laws about the Parah Aduma, the Red Heifer. This commandment serves as a quintessential illustration of a...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 4, 20254 min read


Korach – Who Wants a Happy Life?
Korach challenges Moshe's leadership and Divine appointment. Korach felt aggrieved by Moshe, reasoning that their grandfather, Kehas, had...
Binyomin Stolov
Jul 3, 20254 min read


Shelach – Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
How you are seen When the spies return from scouting out the land of Canaan, they report to Moshe and the nation all that they saw. They...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 20, 20254 min read


Behaalosecha - There are No Limits
In Parshas Behaalosecha, the Torah articulates the laws of Pesach Sheini. In the year following the exodus from Egypt, Hashem commands...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 12, 20254 min read


The Impressionable Mind
In Parshas Nasso, the Torah outlines the laws governing a Sotah. This refers to a woman whose husband has cautioned her against secluding...
Binyomin Stolov
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Count them, Because They Count
The Sefer of Bamidbar is known by Chazal as Sefer Hapikudim. In English, it is referred to as the Book of Numbers, rather than the Book...
Binyomin Stolov
May 30, 20254 min read


Word Power and An Honest Look
Behar – Word Power The Torah contains numerous laws concerning appropriate speech. Many verses and texts discuss the laws of Lashon Hara...
Binyomin Stolov
May 22, 20254 min read


The Challenge of Unfairness
Overcoming challenges In the latter part of Parshas Emor, a sorrowful narrative unfolds regarding a man who blasphemes God and faces...
Binyomin Stolov
May 15, 20254 min read


Love of Self, Love of Others
Love of Self leads to Love of others One of the most frequently cited verses in the Torah appears in Parshas Kedoshim, which states,...
Binyomin Stolov
May 7, 20254 min read


Speech: Rights, Responsibility, or Privilege
The Parshiyos of Tazria and Metzorah provide a comprehensive overview of the laws and principles governing individuals who have...
Binyomin Stolov
Apr 30, 20254 min read


The Torah's Guide to a Healthy Self-Image
You Are What You Think In Parshas Shemini, the Torah outlines the various animals, birds, and fish that are allowed or prohibited for...
Binyomin Stolov
Apr 25, 20253 min read


It’s the Thought That Counts
THoughts Drive Actions In Parshas Tzav, the Torah addresses the prohibition of "Pigul." It states, "If any of the flesh of his peace...
Binyomin Stolov
Apr 9, 20253 min read


Humility and Achievement
The Book of Vayikra, referred to as Leviticus, begins with the expression Vayikra el Moshe, which means “(and) He [G-d] called to Moshe”....
Binyomin Stolov
Apr 2, 20254 min read


Integrity with Transparency
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines integrity as a steadfast commitment to moral principles. Integrity encompasses two primary...
Binyomin Stolov
Mar 27, 20253 min read


Life of Congruence
Inside and Out Parshas Vayakhel recounts Moshe conveying Hashem's command to the Bnei Yisrael to construct the Mishkan. Betzalel, Moshe’s...
Binyomin Stolov
Mar 19, 20253 min read


Who is In Control?
The Crossroad Who is In Control? Shushan Purim coincides with this Shabbos, on which we read Parshas Ki Sisa. This presents an...
Binyomin Stolov
Mar 12, 20254 min read


The Man Makes the Clothes
In Parshas Titzaveh, Moshe is given divine guidance regarding the design of the Bigdei Kehuna, the priestly garments designated for Ahron...
Binyomin Stolov
Mar 5, 20253 min read
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