Parshas Yisro

In this week's Parsha, Parshas Yisro, Yisro awakens to an astonishing sight. The entire Jewish Nation is gathered, waiting in line to consult with Moshe Rabeinu. Concerned about the lengthy wait faced by the people, Yisro inquires about the situation. Moshe explains that he is engaged in judging disputes and providing guidance on the Torah's requirements. Yisro advises Moshe that this approach is impractical and suggests, with divine approval, the establishment of a system of judges. He emphasizes, “You should clarify the statutes and the laws for them and should make known to them the path in which they should walk and the things that they must do.” (Exodus 18:20)

Rav Moshe Sternbach elaborates that Yisro was conveying to Moshe the importance of not only judging the people but also guiding them in their service of Hashem. Some individuals may pursue scholarly endeavors, others may engage in community service, while some may focus on charitable activities. Each person has their own unique path. Yisro's message is profound. There is no singular way to serve Hashem or to find one's place within Klal Yisrael.

Every individual possesses distinct talents and abilities. It is essential for us to introspect and identify our strengths and passions in leading a purposeful and meaningful life. This is where our journey begins. How do we uncover our strengths? What aspects of serving Hashem inspire us? What role can we fulfill in the broader context of the Jewish community? A productive way to begin seeking these insights is to find a quiet space for reflection, free from distractions. Harav Wolbe zt”l suggested that taking solitary walks can be beneficial. Without music or companions—this was in an era before cell phones—you can focus solely on your thoughts. When you start to feel a sense of anxiety, it often indicates that you are on the verge of self-discovery. Keep walking and reflect on moments in your life that brought you joy and excitement. For some, this may be a brief exploration, while for others, it could require a more extensive journey through personal memories. Consider what truly excites you and why those experiences were significant. Reflect on instances of success in your life: what were you engaged in, and how did it affect those around you? Contemplate how you can rekindle that positive energy and identify any barriers that may be preventing you from experiencing it again.

Every individual possesses unique strengths and positive attributes that can contribute to serving Hashem and achieving a fulfilling life. You might have a natural empathy that allows you to provide support to those in need. Perhaps you possess knowledge that others are eager to learn, enabling you to share and teach. Some individuals excel in practical skills, while others have a talent for working with numbers. Make an effort to be present for your community. Consider how you can enhance your roles as a spouse, parent, child, sibling, or friend. If smiling comes easily to you, make a conscious effort to smile at those you typically pass by without acknowledging. These are merely a few ways to embody your best self. Reflect inwardly and embrace your true identity! No one else can fulfill the unique role designated for you.

Have a wonderful and empowering Shabbos,

Binyomin Stolov